Yin yang

Balance. Yin and Yang. Aligning your core. Yoga teaches you to strengthen this. However it's challenging to achieve the perfect balance sometimes. When you have been independently living as a married couple due to deployment it's a fuzzy feeling to adjust after his return. Your balance is off. You forget how to live together. You want to each be you, but also a couple. You wait for his return for so long; countdowns, keeping busy. Then, when he arrives and it's not all you imagined, you become disappointed. It's been a bit hard for us to get on the same foot. Any one else share in that struggle? Is there an easier transition that I don't know about? Any advice would be helpful.